Preheat a grill pan over medium heat, or set an outdoor grill to preheat at 350℉.
Mix salt, pepper and garlic powder together in a large bowl, then toss the wings in the seasoning to coat.
Measure honey, sesame oil, coconut aminos (or soy sauce), and ginger to a small bowl. Whisk well to combine, then set sauce aside.
Lightly brush the grill or pan with oil. Arrange the wings in a single layer on the heated surface. If using an outdoor grill, cook for about 20 minutes, using tongs to turn them every 5 minutes, to ensure even cooking and prevent the skin from burning. If grilling indoors, cook for 25 minutes, covering the pan with a lid for the first 15-20 minutes, and using tongs to turn them every 5 minutes. *Covering the pan helps the chicken cook through.
Leave the grill turned on! Use tongs to transfer chicken wings to a large bowl. Pour the honey sauce over them and use tongs to toss and coat the pieces.
Lightly brush oil on the grill/pan again if needed, then return the wings to the hot surface. Cook for 2-3 more minutes per side, until the skins become crispy but not burnt.
Insert the probe of a meat thermometer into the thickest portion of a drumette (do not let the probe touch the bone) to ensure that the internal temperature of the chicken is 165℉.
Before serving, sprinkle the grilled chicken wings with sesame seeds, sliced green onion and minced cilantro, if desired.
Notes
If you are grilling on a pan indoors, the cook time for the honey wings will be 5-7 minutes longer than cooking on a traditional grill.
Serving Size: 2 pounds of wing pieces (drumettes and flats) averages 16 to 24 pieces total. For an appetizer or light meal, plan on 4 grilled chicken wings per person. For a main dish, plan on 5 pieces per person.
For a kick of spicy heat, add 1 teaspoon hot sauce or sriracha to the wing sauce.
Before serving, always check that the internal temperature of chicken reaches 165°F (74°C), per USDA.